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Saturday, December 22, 2012

Gender divide

A sexologist said that "Man loves a woman to have sex but a woman has sex to get love" Sex simply is not between the legs but between the ears. The point which I want to make is how understanding of sexuality evolves is the way one which construes this pervert mindset. The conditioning of a male mind begins at the onset of puberty. That is where the objectification of woman in terms of her body starts. The tools of information are the porn sites. The glorification of masculinity is the discussion. The heritage abuses are learnt with intent. The fact that these abuses are eternal. Seldom some new abuses are found but are short lived.
By the time any realisation takes place we are grown ups.
To break these shackles one has to break that mindset which treats woman as an object. Shankeracharya said Nari sthandhar nabhi nivishya mithya maya moha vishya. Yeh tan maas vasaadhi vikaar. Mansi vichar baarambaar.
This categorically dismisses the thought which objectifies the woman.
The pleasure derived at behest of unconscious mind or happiness through compassion and love.  I think the choice should not be difficult.